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delacroix:

Me too. And, more than that, I’m sick of the people using it.
Women are told almost constantly—by the media, the government, and the overall attitude of society—that our bodies don’t fucking belong to us. The mythical friendzone is just another way for misogynists to enforce that idea while getting to play the victim.
It sucks when someone you have feelings for doesn’t share those feelings; it happens to women all the time, too. We hear “I just want to be friends” and “you’re like one of the guys” and “you’re like a sister to me” just as often. But you’ll never hear a woman complain that guys just don’t appreciate a Nice Girl because we’re taught it’s our own fucking fault when we’re rejected—we aren’t pretty enough or thin enough or sexy enough, we weren’t sexual enough or were too sexual, we put out too much or too little or too soon or not soon enough, we didn’t wear our hair the right way or our skirt the right length, we’re “too tomboyish” or “too butch” or “too feminine”, or we’re “not their type”, or we’re otherwise not good enough in various ways to entice the man to grace us with his affection.
But when we’re not interested in someone, we’re vilified. We’re the bitch that lead them on, the bitch who let them buy us dinner but didn’t want to date them, the bitch who doesn’t appreciate a nice guy, the bitch they were nice to and then got nothing in return from.
And, frankly, fuck those people. Showing interest in me, being friendly with me, getting close to me, or eating a meal with me (even if they paid for it) doesn’t obligate me to open my heart or my legs. And anyone who doesn’t appreciate my friendship sure as hell doesn’t deserve my love or my pussy.

BOOM.

This is the greatest commentary on the “friendzone” business that I’ve ever seen.

COMMENTARY YES.

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^^^^^^^^^^^reblogging just for that
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This is one of the awesome things about the internet, but don’t sell yourself short about your role in this. There are...
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Thanks Feigen. I find it more and more interesting of how I have viewed things in life and then see other perspective...
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Beardy, it makes me love you all the more for saying all of that. The fact that you allowed yourself listen openly and...
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Re-reblogging to add my own stuff and things: I have felt like this before, and I feel like a complete and total asshole...
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fuck the friendzone!.. jerks
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Delacroix, I kind of love you. :)
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